Lives in Swindon

I am independent, down to earth, astute, and not interested in casual sex.I am more useful in a relationship. I work hard and like decency and respect. That does not mean I do not show my flirty and playful , loving side because I am all those things and more fun. I am however a teetotaller and remain grounded overally..I am reliable and frank, honest and like to dress nicely but not into shopping at all..I like to be taken care of and feel that I have a man but then again I am very emotionally secure so its all about balance. I have kids who live with my ex and I am not looking for a dad for them . If someone takes advantage of me I can easily walk away..